Organization Phone Numbers
- Student Counseling Service: 513-529-4634
- Psychology Clinic, Dept of Psychology: 513-529-2423
- Student Health Services: 513-529-3000
- Miami University Police: 513-529-2222
- Oxford Police Department: 513-523-6321
At least 70% of all people who attempt suicide give some clue as to their intentions before they make an attempt. Becoming aware of these clues and the severity of the person's problems can help us prevent such a tragedy.
If a person you know is going through a particularly stressful situation - perhaps having difficulty maintaining a meaningful relationship, adjusting to a new environment, having consistent failure in meeting their preset goals, or even experiencing stress at having failed an important test - watch for other signs of crisis.
Many persons convey their intentions directly with statements such as "I feel like killing myself" or "I don't know how much longer I can take this." Others in crisis may hint at a detailed suicide plan with statements such as "I have been saving up my pills in case things get really bad," or "Lately I have been driving my car like I really don't care what happens" or "life does not seem worth living anymore."
In general, statements describing feelings of depression, helplessness, extreme loneliness, and/or hopelessness may suggest suicidal thoughts. It is important to listen to these "cries for help" because they are usually desperate attempts to communicate to others the need to be understood and helped. We need to listen to their "cries for help."
Often, persons thinking about suicide show outward changes in their behavior. They may prepare for death by giving away prized possessions, making a will, or putting other affairs in order. They may withdraw from those around them, change eating or sleeping patterns, or lose interest in prior activities or relationships. A sudden, intense lift in spirits may also be a danger signal, as it may indicate the person already feels a sense of relief knowing the problems will "soon be ended."
|You have to be "crazy" even to think about suicide.
|Most people have thought of suicide from time to time. Most suicides and suicide attempts are made by intelligent, temporarily confused individuals who are expecting too much of themselves, especially in the midst of crisis. They view suicide as the only solution.
|"Once a person has made a serious suicide attempt, that person is unlikely to make another."
|The opposite is often true. Persons who have made prior suicide attempts may be at greater risk of actually committing suicide; for some, suicide attempts may seem easier a second or third time.
|"If a person is seriously considering suicide, there is nothing you can do."
|Most suicidal crises are time-limited and based on unclear thinking. Persons attempting suicide want to escape from their problems. Instead, they need to confront their problems directly in order to find other solutions - solutions which can be found with the help of concerned individuals who support them through the crisis period, until they are able to think more clearly.
|"Talking about suicide may give a person the idea."
|The crisis and resulting emotional distress will already have triggered the thought in a vulnerable person. Your openness and concern in asking about suicide will allow the person experiencing pain to talk about the problem, which may help reduce his or her anxiety. This will also allow the person with suicidal thoughts to feel less lonely or isolated and perhaps a bit relieved. If you talk and listen to that person, you will not give them the idea of suicide. They will appreciate your ability to listen and be patient.
Most suicides can be prevented by sensitive responses to the person in crisis. If you think someone you know may be suicidal, you should:
Let the troubled person who is suicidal know you care and are concerned. Let them know that you care and are so concerned that you will arrange help beyond that which you can offer.
In a situation like suicide, where a person's life is in danger, it is much more important to help someone get help than it is to keep things confidential. In fact, by keeping such a serious issue to yourself, you may be doing something that is not helpful.
If you know someone you suspect may be suicidal and you would like to consult about what to do and how to approach the situations etc., please contact us at the Student Counseling Service.
Contact the national Crisis Text Line for 24/7 confidential help via text.
Text HOME to 741741 to connect with a volunteer Crisis Counselor.